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“I send my deepest condolences to your family.... Ervin I know we didnt keep on touch as much as we should but I loved u and u were always in my...
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1 of 31 | Posted by: Charee Jenkins VA
“To the family and friends of Ervin Brower: although I did not know Ervin personally, please accept my deepest condolences in your time of sorrow. ...
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2 of 31 | Posted by: Mrs. Williams Wilmington DE
“TO THE BROWER AND SAUNDERS FAMILY, I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS.THE FAMILY HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND I WILL KEEP YOU ALL IN MY PRAYERS.
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3 of 31 | Posted by: DENISE GUY NEW CASTLE DE
“Erv, ever since i was little hanging with you my brothers( Ed, & Rob) and Rashaad, i always told myself i wanted to have a little bit of all...
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4 of 31 | Posted by: Aaron Newark, DE
“KENDALE EVERY SINCE .YOU ED AND I MET WEVE BEEN BROTHERS. AND TO KNOW YOUR NOT HERE TO INSPIRE ME LIKE YOU ALWAYS DO BRINGS A PAIN AND EMPTINESS...
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5 of 31 | Posted by: Rashaad boyd san diego CA
“Ervin,
I remember meeting you for the first time at our part time at Sears several years ago. I had no idea that you would become one my closest...
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6 of 31 | Posted by: Sherman Urquhart
“My Family offers their deepest condolances. My Parents loved your son. My sister Portrice use to date your son in high school,and my father always...
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7 of 31 | Posted by: Ebonique Conkey
“To: Jenie,Slugger and Family "The heart hath its own memory, like the mind. And in it are enshrined the precious keepsakes, into which is...
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8 of 31 | Posted by: Cheryl Skinner-Sadler DE
“I know we hadn't talked in years, but I never forgot you, in fact I was just telling my sister about you on Monday and today I found out that you...
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9 of 31 | Posted by: Tia new castle, DE
“May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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10 of 31 | Posted by: FoxHill Homeowners Association VA
“To the family and friends- I am so sorry for your lost. I wanted to give you my deepest sincere condolences. I can not imagine what you are going...
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11 of 31 | Posted by: Kelli McNair Newark, DE
“It hurts me so much to be writing this so soon. Kendale, this was so shocking and unexpected.Words can't express how I feel.You were definelty one...
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12 of 31 | Posted by: Kelli McNair Newark, DE
“To the family I'm so very sorry to here about Kendale Passing. Him and most of the other younger ones from the family called me uncle Paul. Do to...
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13 of 31 | Posted by: Paul Henson AZ
“To the Brower family: My most recent memory of Ervin is so clear: “Ms. Payne, what about the measurements you promised me?” I...
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14 of 31 | Posted by: Regina Payne Richmond VA
“To the family of Kendale: It saddens me to hear of the passing of a young man who I looked at as family. It is my prayer that God strengthens...
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15 of 31 | Posted by: Rev. Andre L. Harris DE
“Words cannot express the degree of sadness within our hearts at Kendale's untimely passing. Condolences are sent to the family and all other...
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16 of 31 | Posted by: Carolyn Chambliss Newark DE
“To the family, To be absent from the body is to be present with the lord. I can only imagine the hurt and pain you must be feeling, but know...
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17 of 31 | Posted by: A Friend of the Family DE
“we want to send our condolences to the family at your time of need, this can't be easy for you, but God doesn't give us any more than we can...
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18 of 31 | Posted by: sherry and chris watson DE
“we want to let the family know , how much of a shock this was to us , we will miss kendale , such a loss, our prayers are with your family, we...
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19 of 31 | Posted by: chris,kevin,kory, ty watson DE
“Kendale,
I remember speaking to you about Kenny and what a loss that was and now Ty and I are speaking of you. The good memories will carry on. I...
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20 of 31 | Posted by: Pooh DE
“Ervin and Genie, I know this hard for you both i have been where you are. You both have been so good and helpful to me in my time of need. Please...
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21 of 31 | Posted by: Yogi wilmington, DE
“My prayers are with you and your family. You will be missed.
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22 of 31 | Posted by: TeNisha Skinner
“My last conversation was with Ervin on Thursday Oct.29th in the evening. We were joking and laughing at something as usual and he said if i don't...
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23 of 31 | Posted by: Monique Ridley
“Erv,
Still cant believe you are gone man. Your memories will live on. I will being praying for all of your loved ones! I know u are in a better...
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24 of 31 | Posted by: MS. PERRY
“Dear Kendale, We've known each for years, since elementary school. I'm so deeply sadden by your lost. I know we lost touch for years but when we...
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25 of 31 | Posted by: Toshieka Darden New Castle DE
“we the Brickhouse family send our sincere Condolences to the family. God will bring you threw. you just have to believe that he is your support...
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26 of 31 | Posted by: gwendolyn brickhouse and family
“Genie and Family, You are all in my thought and prayers at this time. Always remember all the happy times you all shared with Ervin and...
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27 of 31 | Posted by: Karen Mengel Dover, DE
“Your death came as such a shock. I pray and hope your family is doing okay the best that they can through this difficult time. You were a great...
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28 of 31 | Posted by: Erin Moyer Dover, DE
“To the Family, I pray for strength & togetherness. It is a hard pill to swallow but we'll get through. God said that "He wouldn't give us...
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29 of 31 | Posted by: LaToya (Toy) WIlson DE
“My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time of sudden loss.. Erv, More than anything I will miss that laugh of yours.You will...
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30 of 31 | Posted by: Nicole Santos newark, DE
“I am praying that God will give the family what they need to get through.
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31 of 31 | Posted by: nychelle suggs middletown DE
Erving Kendale-Lamonte Brower, Sr. of Richmond, VA (raised in Middletown, DE), age 27 suddenly passed on Saturday, October 31, 2009 in Richmond, VA. He leaves to cherish his memories, beloved son Ervin Kendale-Lamonte Brower, Jr. (Lil'Erv); loving father and mother Ervin C. Brower, Jr and Rudolph Eugenia Saunders-Brower; loving sister Geneen Nichole Brower and a host of other family member and friends.
Only the main photo has been provided by the family or the funeral home.
I send my deepest condolences to your family.... Ervin I know we didnt keep on touch as much as we should but I loved u and u were always in my thouhgts and u always will be....
Posted by: Charee Jenkins Newport News , Va, VA - close friend Dec 08, 2009
To the family and friends of Ervin Brower: although I did not know Ervin personally, please accept my deepest condolences in your time of sorrow. The pain of losing a loved one is not one that subsides quickly, especially when their life ends unexpectedly. May the following thoughts from God’s Word prove to be a source of comfort and hope as they have been for me and my family during times such as these: At John 11:25, Jesus told Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life. He that exercises faith in me, even though he dies, will come to life." Shortly after speaking those words, Jesus resurrected Lazarus back to life right here on earth. Very soon God’s Kingdom (Matthew 6:10) will permanently remove death, resurrect our loved ones, and restore all of our bodies back to their original perfect state. May this future promise sustain you during the difficult days ahead. Most sorrowfully, Mrs. Williams
Posted by: Mrs. Williams Wilmington, DE Nov 28, 2009
TO THE BROWER AND SAUNDERS FAMILY, I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS.THE FAMILY HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND I WILL KEEP YOU ALL IN MY PRAYERS.
Posted by: DENISE GUY NEW CASTLE, DE Nov 14, 2009
Erv, ever since i was little hanging with you my brothers( Ed, & Rob) and Rashaad, i always told myself i wanted to have a little bit of all of all of you in me when i grew up. I always wanted to be like you guys... I can't sit and explain how long I've sat and cryed because I didn't loose a friend, I lost one of my older brothers.... I remember we always sat and played playstation or something and would always fight about who won. But i never thought when i saw you 2 weeks ago that it was going to be the last...But you will always be in my heart with everything i do in life, and I'll always remember you telling me to do my best in everything.
Thank you fore everything you've done for me...Without my brothers i wouldn't be who i am now.
Luv you bru
Aaron
Posted by: Aaron Newark, DE Nov 11, 2009
KENDALE EVERY SINCE .YOU ED AND I MET WEVE BEEN BROTHERS. AND TO KNOW YOUR NOT HERE TO INSPIRE ME LIKE YOU ALWAYS DO BRINGS A PAIN AND EMPTINESS INSIDE ME THAT WILL TAKE A LIFETIME TO REPAIR. YOU WAS THE BEST FRIEND A PERSON COULD EVER ASK FOR KID..SO I WILL CARRY ON YOU LEGACY PROUDLY..T YOUR FAMILY IM HERE WITH OPEN ARMS AND TO YOUR SON YOUR UNCLE RASHAAD IS IN CALIFORNIA WHENEVER YOU NEED ME..I LOVE KENDALE AGN FOREVER SHAMAL BABY AKA RASHAAD JAMAL BOYD
Posted by: Rashaad boyd san diego, CA Nov 10, 2009
Ervin,
I remember meeting you for the first time at our part time at Sears several years ago. I had no idea that you would become one my closest friends. You were the type that would come through and hang out or just talk and share things with me. Thank you for being the guy that I could relate to and talk about serious issues with and also joke with no end. You told me a few weeks ago that I inspire you but with all that you accomplished you have inspired me to be a better human being. I will miss you and the pain I feel transforms into comfort knowing that you are home with God and will always be there when I need to talk about something. Thanks brother, I love you and will never forget you, rest in peace.
Posted by: Sherman Urquhart Nov 09, 2009
My Family offers their deepest condolances. My Parents loved your son. My sister Portrice use to date your son in high school,and my father always told her that she let the good one get away. Kendale was such a nice young man. He use to stop by the house just to say hi to my parents when he was in town. It had been a while since we saw him and my mom had just asked about him. I can't imagine the pain that the family is going through, but do know that there isn't anything to hard for God. "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:5-6. Nothing can take this pain away but the love of Jesus. Be Blessed, lean on the everlasting arms of the Lord for your comfort. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Love The Conkey Family
Posted by: Ebonique Conkey Nov 07, 2009
To: Jenie,Slugger and Family "The heart hath its own memory, like the mind. And in it are enshrined the precious keepsakes, into which is wrought the giver's loving thought." My thoughts and Prayers are with thee.
Posted by: Cheryl Skinner-Sadler Middletown, DE Nov 07, 2009
I know we hadn't talked in years, but I never forgot you, in fact I was just telling my sister about you on Monday and today I found out that you passed. I am really confused and saddened right now and I pray that you are in a better place looking out for all of us still on this earth. May God help comfort your family and other friends through this time of loss. Rest In Peace.
Posted by: Tia new castle, DE Nov 06, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Posted by: FoxHill Homeowners Association Richmond, VA Nov 06, 2009
Visitation:
November 07 2009
8:00 AM to 9:00 AM
Calvary Baptist Church
300 New Street
Middletown, DE 19709
Funeral Service:
November 07 2009
9:00 AM to 11:00 AM
Calvary Baptist Church
300 New Street
Middletown, DE 19709
Interment:
November 07 2009
11:30 AM to 11:45 AM
Gracelawn Memorial Park
2220 N. DuPont Highway
Bear, DE 19701


