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Jose,
You don't even know how much your wife loves you, but she is so strong. I meet you guys back in high school in band. You gave me and mike so many memories that i will never forget. But you also brought me something in return. Crystal. I need her and much as she needs me. I promise to look out for her and be there for here anytime she needs me. I miss you dearly. Sometimes i hope that when i go to the gym that i will see you and crystal walking out the door.I know that one day we will meet again. But until then i will look out for your wife and daughter until the day i die!
love always
janelle ware
Posted by: Janelle Ware apple valley, CA Nov 14, 2009
hey there baby i love you sooo much and as time grows closer to the arrival of our daughter im gettin so nervous, and scared and i dont knw which one to feel more of... but babe i miss you and i knw that you will be there at the hospital with me in spirit an most important in my heart!!! well bby i love you i love you i love you...
good night sweet dreams x3 and i love you more bby...
love always
your one and only
lil mama thurman
Posted by: Crystal Nov 14, 2009
wow it truly is unreal. everyday that passes you still run through my head. every night i pray that your journey to heaven is a safe one. god only deserves the best to share paradise with him and you definately fit into that category. i miss you too much to put in words. and i thank you very much for showing me the right direction and right path to take in life. i will never forget the strength and dedication you taught me. i also wanted to thank you for being the greatest thing my sister ever had. you really paved the way for her in life. you are a true soldier jose and not just to your country. i have always looked up to you and crystal and you both inspired me to make something of myself. i will forever cherish our memories we had together. you were the closest thing i had to a big brother! please watch over your niece and wife please
they need you more than ever!
love you always and forever
but like you always said this isnt good bye its i'll see you later
Posted by: malibu barbie (lizz) Nov 07, 2009
I meet Crystal and Jose at a class in Ft. Irwin. My office was conducting training for the 5-Tier Training system. Both Crystal and Jose were in attendance. I remember instantly talking to Crystal because I am an expecting mother to be as well. I wanted to chat with her about her maternity uniforms and such. Any how through out the class Jose was making jokes so I caught on early on that he had a good sense of humor. They both looked so cute together, like they belonged. I know that I didn’t know you both long enough but you both made an impression on me.
I'm sorry Crystal for your loss but you have to stay strong for your baby. Remember that God will help you get through these hard times. To all of his family my condolences go out to all of you.
Posted by: Elisa Bernal Elk Grove , CA Sep 11, 2009
Yesterday, family came together just for you my son. We prayed hard and loud for your soul. I miss you dearly! I cry here and there, and I know you are telling me Mom, Mom. I miss you Jose, you were taken out of my world within minutes! We had plans. I love you my son
Posted by: Myriam Sep 07, 2009
I didnt know Jose, but his wife Crystal was my daughters battle buddy in boot camp and I've met her. I am so sadden by the news and my thoughts and prayers are with her and family!
Posted by: Angela Sep 03, 2009
well what to say is what im trying to figure out, i dont know where to even start describing how much i loved you and still love and need you!!! you were my life my everything anything and everything i did was with you or for you i'm so sorry that you are not here right now an honestly i have no idea what to feel right now i guess im still in shock that you are gone...i will never get over you, you were my first love my first everything and you will always be with me for now and always... rest in paradise baby i love you!!! love always your one and only wife lil mama thurman
Posted by: Crystal Sep 02, 2009
I first met Jose in my first year teaching at Granite Hills H.S. He was a ray of sunshine in my world literature class. No matter how difficult my day was, he could make me laugh and smile. I still tell my students about the time he climbed into a storage cabinet when I wasn't looking and he began meowing like a cat and scratching at the cabinet door. This was typical Jose. Even after his sophomore year, he would stop by to say hello. What a vivacious and warm young man and what a terrible waste for such a promising life. His family and friends are in my thoughts.
Posted by: Amelia Herrington Apple Valley, CA Aug 31, 2009
Crystal, I am so sorry I didnt know sooner. I Just had surgery and was reading the paper and thought, it couldnt be the same guy. My prayers are with you and if you need a friend, call me. Sincerest condolances, Candi.
Posted by: Spc. Candelaria Brown Aug 30, 2009
I had few "fellas" during my school years, but I had a great friend in Jose. We weren't the closest friends, but when I needed a friend, Jose was there. Bonding through the drums, we spent some great years together. After HS, Jose went into the military, continuing to show the world his greatness with anything he put his hand to. When he got back it ws just like before, if one of us needed the other, we were there. We partied together, talked about the "good ol days," and what the future could bring.
A great man was taken from us way to soon and my heart breaks that I will never be able to spend another day reminiscing or planning a night club with him. I was around him as much in te last year, but it still rocks my world to know he's gone.
To Crystal and the family, my heart goes out to you and you stay in my prayers. I know you are going through a lot of pain, but I pray that you stay strong and lean on each other through this time. I wish I could be out there to pay my respects in person. My love is there.
Jose, I miss you bro.
Posted by: Lance Tucker II Aug 30, 2009


